my new prerequisites
Last night I decided what I want in a man. Here is my list of the good old top 10 must haves in a man:
1. He needs to make me feel like I am dating up. Not that I am lower, but like I am lucky to have him. That way I am not taking him for granted.
2. He needs to be just as dominant in a relationship as I am. This is difficult, because as I was told by someone last night, I am VERY dominating when it comes to men. What it comes down to is this: I don't ever want to wear the pants in a relationship again.
3. He needs to be romantic. All the cute little things that other people talk about doing for their significant other. That is what I want to experience. Brett would always talk about it, but most of the time the little things only happened when things were on the rocks. I want someone to do cute stuff at the most random times when I am least expecting it. I want the way fairytale romantic thing just once...with the candles and the rose petals and all that jazz. As Rob would say, I want a panty dropper date!!!!!
4. I want him to be successful. I want to him to be involved in things so I can have bragging rights. I am tired being the one who does everything and brings whoever along for the ride. I want to have a lot of pride in who I am dating.
5. I want his friends to say, wow, how did he get her? And my friends to say, wow, how did you get him!
6. I want him to be someone who I can laugh with and joke around and be my crude crazy self with. I want someone to instigate trouble with, but most of all I want someone who will wrestle with me. I love wresting for fun. And he better put up a good fight.
7. I want someone I can go places with. Someone who is sociable and mingles well and is a lot of fun even with strangers.
8. I want someone who is very intelligent. I think intelligence is the sexiest thing ever. Hotter than a large wiener or a hot body. Brains really really turn me on.
9. I want someone who is honest with me. I want them to tell me what they really think and tell me straight up without any sugar coating.
10. Last of all, I want someone that is faithful. I haven't ever been cheated on and I don't want one boy to ruin all boys for me. Trust is key....no trust, I can can't handle it. I need my space and my freedom and I hate to be smothered...so if he can't trust me enough to give me that, I am gonna have to be out of here.
So, this is my top 10 list. If you meet these requirements, I can be reached @ 909.214.2459.
:)
2004-12-09 | 9:06 p.m.